Perhaps your parents raised you in the home they are now still living in. As you see them begin to slow, or have to jump on a plane every time they wish to see you, thoughts of helping them to have an easier time come across your mind. After all they deserve at this time of their life to relax, do what they wish to do, and be able to manage their health and their finances with comfort.
As you discuss the future and it’s possibilities, there are a few questions to ask yourself and everyone else involved.
First, do you or other siblings have concerns about inheritance and/or equity? Your parents probably care that all of you feel you have received from them as they pass. While this discussion is not always easy, it is undeniably beneficial. Talking will give clarity, which in turn provides direction. It also gives everyone a chance to be heard.
Second, do you have financial resources to help your parents? Health needs as we age are difficult to determine, but it is important to build in a buffer for the unexpected. The stress of aging is enough in and of itself, being able to take care of the costs should not have to be an additional worry for those that raised you.
Another good question that only your parents can answer is, ‘What are my parents’ wishes about staying in their home, especially if their medical needs grow?’ For some, they are ready to let go of the home of their youth and family, wanting to change and simplify their lifestyle. For some, being closer to you is the most important desire. And for some staying in their home as long as possible is the most important wish that could be fulfilled. Since the decision about reverse mortgage as a way to fulfill desires is a big one, looking toward the future and developing a plan will only benefit everyone – and ultimately make your parents happy.
Reverse mortgage is an individualized, specialized loan for those 62 and older that allows seniors to tap into the equity of their home while living mortgage and loan payment free. The funds can be accessed via a lump sum, line of credit, monthly installments, or even to purchase a home. Adult children can help their parents plan ahead by working with a reputable reverse mortgage specialist.
Jan Jordan is a Reverse Mortgage Specialist serving the Fort Collins, Loveland, Greeley, Longmont, Boulder and other Front Range areas of Colorado. Click here to contact Jan and learn if reverse mortgage is right for you.